“In vain I have struggled” – The writer tried to fight or hide these feelings but failed.“You must allow me to tell you” – He insists on expressing his emotions despite obstacles.Conflict – He knows that declaring his love goes against family, friends, and his own judgment.Tone – Passionate, honest, and determined, showing inner conflict between desire and social expectations.The passage highlights the tension between personal emotions and societal/familial expectations, a common theme in romantic literature.