Answer:tend to compare myself to others who are a bit further ahead in life than me.It's not the healthiest thing in the world I know, but I tend to do it a lot.I've compared myself to my sister a lot, who I feel is a bit more sure-footed about what she wants out of life than I am.I've compared myself to friends and colleagues who I always felt were more confident, better looking, and more sure of themselves than I am.I feel like the comparison game actually makes things worse.Instead of working on areas that I can work on, I subtly shame myself for being something that I'm not.I feel like there are a fair number of people who I compare myself to in this way.